Do you ever doubt whether you are doing the right thing with your life?
I confess I used to have this doubt on a fairly regular basis. I had so many passions, it was really easy for me to take off in a variety of directions. Some days (or years) I saw myself as a yoga teacher; some days I was a psychotherapist and wanted to change the world of mental health care and create a movement that blurs the boundaries between psychology and spirituality. Other days I could quite happily see myself going into meditation retreat for a decade or holing up as a hermit writer. OH, and then there were days I dreamt of living a simple life off-grid with a loving partner, growing and cooking (or not) our own organic food and creating a nourishing community in harmony with the land.
And then there were days when I wanted to do ALL of that, and NOW.
Man, was that exhausting. I am not capable of doing EVERYTHING. Eventually I learned that it helps to narrow down the focus, identify your core values, and set an intention. Then, and only then, you can create the life what you want.
Are you aligned with your life’s purpose?
For a practical strategy, I identify 10 aspects of a balanced approach to daily life (if you missed that post, get it here.) When you check in with body, speech and mind on a daily basis, you train yourself to ally with the sane aspects of your being, rather than getting distracted or carried away by elements that would derail you from your life’s purpose.
What is your life’s purpose?
Consider this as a two-fold question. There’s your ultimate life’s purpose, and your relative life’s purpose, or calling.
Here are some examples of an ultimate purpose:
• live in the moment
• to be myself fully
• be happy and to share happiness with others
• love and be loved
• listen to my body and let that message lead me where I need to go
• live from a place of truth
Here’s the trick: when you live your ultimate purpose, your calling unfolds before you.
How Do You Discover Your Ultimate Life’s Purpose?
Align body, breath and mind with the call of your heart, and your life’s purpose will reveal itself without you having to do anything. It is simply a matter of training yourself to be present, listen, and follow the voice of your inner guidance, then allowing the momentum of your intention move you forward. It’s like catching a wave. The trick is that you need awareness practices to help you ride the wave. Without balance, you’ll get overwhelmed by the sheer force of that momentum and wipe out.
How Can You Align With Your Life’s Purpose?
1 Set an intention or aspiration. What is the one thing that is important to you? Identify it.
2 Connect with the body. Engage in a daily physical discipline.
3 Tune in to the breath. Make a habit of checking in with your breath. Speak with awareness and integrity.
4 Rest in the nature of mind that is not distracted. Learn to focus the mind and train your awareness through meditation practice.
5 Listen to what your heart tells you. Once you are able to observe your thoughts with precision, you’ll start to hear where your heart wants to lead you, and where you get in your own way.
6 Act on your heart’s instructions. Take one small step in the direction your heart calls you to go.
These practices, when engaged with intention, will help you to clarify what is important to you in life, and to see what steps you need to take to start living with more joy, more love and to learn to accept that suffering does not mean you are doing it wrong.